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It’s no secret that marriage can be such a beautiful journey. It also comes with its fair share of challenges. However, in order to survive the challenges and build an incredibly loving union, it’s so important to be intentional in so many ways. Whether you’re a newlywed or twenty years in, you’ll want to show appreciation and respect for your husband. When he feels that, it can change the trajectory of your union. In a marriage, both people have to do their part. In order to appreciate and show your love for your husband, consider these steps;
1. Communicate. Respect the fact that your husband is not a mind-reader. If you don’t communicate with him, there’s no way he’s going to know what you want. When your husband doesn’t have to guess or feel like he has to step on eggshells around you, this makes his at-home experience a lot easier. When you communicate, watch your tone and word choice.
2. Pick your battles. It’s always important to choose your battles. It’s okay and totally normal to get into arguments with your spouse. You have to make sure you’re intentional about finding a solution to any issues you might have. It’s also essential to look at whether the argument is worth having. Sometimes, it’s best to pick your battles. Some things are worth a conversation. However, there are other things that should roll off of your back. Know the difference.
3. Speak his love language. As he should learn your love language, it’s equally important to learn his. If he really responds to physical touch, make sure physical intimacy is a major priority in your relationship. If he tends to like gifts, surprise him with fun gifts such as Luminox Watch. Tickets to see his favorite sports games and dinner reservations are a few great options. Make sure that the ways you speak to his love language are accurate to what he’d want. Don’t lean toward what you’d want him to have. Focus on him. Pay attention to clues as they will help you gain clarity. Don’t forget to ask him what he’d want from you. Once you know better, you can do better.
4. Create a warm and inviting home. If you knew that your home was a place filled with strife and tension, you wouldn’t want to come home. Furthermore, it’s difficult for most people to cook in a dirty kitchen. It’s difficult to thrive in a space that’s visually cluttered. While there are many men who know how to create a beautiful home, most women tend to love to take over in this department. As his wife, do your best to make sure the home is a safe, clean and positive space for your husband to come back to after he’s faced the world all day.
